Josh, check your imperialist privilege.
Also: The code word is "Haram".
I checked it. It's amazing.
There exists a continuum of cultures ranging from miserable, destructive nightmare cultures all the way to happy, constructive, mentally safe ones.
In my opinion (which coincides with reality nicely), cultures which deny education to women, or glorify child abuse are inferior to cultures that respect all genders equally and treat children with kindness and love. Whenever I bump up against people participating in an inferior culture, I try and educate them about the harm they are causing. At the very least I try and make them aware of some of their problems.
I don't threaten violence against idiots who willfully participate in a rape culture, but I do try to influence them to respect others. I lead by example with friends and family. Ask me about the time I changed some minds about child abuse. (They used to be OK with it, and now they are not.) I'm kind of a cultural imperialist that way.
I'm not going to kidnap a woman who is about to get forced into an arranged marriage and made to raise a litter of humans, but I will help her defect in any way I can.
Violent behavior is unacceptable even if it is a part of your culture. I will ridicule you if, for example, you think tradition is a good reason for giving a baby an irreversible, unnecessary cosmetic surgery.
